Marriage, or Nikah, is a sacred bond in Islam that is not only a social contract but also a spiritual act of worship. The Sunnah way of performing marriage follows the practices and teachings of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, offering a balanced, modest, and meaningful approach to building a family life that is rooted in faith, love, and responsibility.

1. Simplicity and Modest

One of the most important Sunnah principles in an Islamic marriage is simplicity. The Prophet ﷺ encouraged Muslims to avoid extravagance and unnecessary burdens. He said:

"The most blessed marriage is the one with the least expenses."
(Narrated by Ibn Hibban)

A simple ceremony, free from lavish spending, reflects Islamic values and allows people of all financial backgrounds to marry with dignity.

2. Mutual Consent

Islam places great emphasis on mutual agreement between the bride and groom. Both parties must accept the marriage willingly. Forced marriages are strictly against Islamic teachings. The Prophet ﷺ said:

“A previously married woman has more right to her person than her guardian, and a virgin’s consent must be sought...”
(Sahih Muslim)

This ensures that the marriage is based on mutual understanding, respect, and free choice.

3. The Nikah Contract

The core of the marriage is the Nikah ceremony, where the following elements are included:

• Proposal and acceptance (Ijab and Qabul) in the presence of two male Muslim witnesses.

• The Mahr (dowry) is given to the bride by the groom as a gift, not a price. It can be money, property, or anything agreed upon.

• A Khutbah (sermon) is often recited, praising Allah, sending blessings on the Prophet ﷺ, and reminding both parties of their duties in marriage.

4. Involvement of the Wali (Guardian)

For the bride, the presence and approval of a Wali (guardian, usually the father or a close male relative) is a Sunnah requirement, especially for first-time marriages. The Wali’s role is to ensure that the marriage is in the best interest of the woman and conducted according to Islamic guidelines.

5. Public Declaration

Islam encourages that marriages be publicly announced to avoid secrecy and rumors. The Prophet ﷺ recommended holding a simple Walimah (marriage feast) after the Nikah to share the joy and make the union known to the community.

“Announce this marriage, and perform it in the mosque, and beat the duff for it.”
(Tirmidhi)

6. Du'a and Barakah

Following the marriage, it is Sunnah to pray for the couple. The Prophet ﷺ would say:

“May Allah bless for you (your spouse), and bless you, and unite both of you in goodness.”
(Abu Dawood)

Seeking Allah’s blessings from the beginning ensures that the marriage is rooted in faith and divine guidance.

Conclusion

The Sunnah way of performing marriage in Islam emphasizes simplicity, consent, public declaration, and mutual respect. By following the Prophet Muhammad’s ﷺ example, Muslims ensure that their marriages are not only legally valid but also spiritually rewarding. It’s a reminder that marriage is not just a contract between two people—it’s a sacred bond built on trust, mercy, and the love of Allah.

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